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Detailed instruction on how to contact Russian women
Men and women from all over the world are welcomed to become our members. You can submit your profile here and thus join us. It is for free.You will be asked to choose a username and then you will get a mailbox on our server where you will be able to check your email, keep track of it and also of your balance of credits. Uploading your pictures to your profile increases your chances to get responses from women.
After that feel free to search our vast and constantly updated database to find women you would like to contact. There are 3 ways to contact the girl you liked.
1. Send her a message for free
Ladies who have access to the Internet and have email addresses will get your message at once. However, there are a lot of women who do not have the Internet access, so the procedure of letter delivery may take a little longer. Your letter in this case will be delivered to the girl either by phone, in person or by domestic mail. Her answer will be delivered to your mailbox on our server. When you get a message, we will send you a notification.
To open a response from a woman, you need to apply credits to it. Thus, you should purchase credits ($1-$2 per credit depending on the quantity of credits you purchase). Letters from different women have different prices, so the number of credits for each letter varies. If you do not want to pay by your credit card, we have more payment options.
2. Send her a "smile" for free
Sending a "smile" (a quick "Hi" message with a link back to your profile), you let the person understand that you are interested in her/his profile.
3. Surprise her by a live interpreted phone call via our bi-lingual operator (1.8 credits per minute)
You can call our toll-free number 1-866-974-6453 (or outside of the US call +1 (312) 252-0005, it is not toll-free) between 3AM and 3PM CST, and tell the operator your login to our site, and the name or reference number of the member you want to talk to. For most of our members we have phone numbers. The operator will dial her then and translate your conversation (the operator stays online throughout the conversation). If the operator cannot contact the girl, she will try to arrange your next phone call. More details.
* We do not have numbers for all our women. If this is the case, we will not be able to organize your call right away. Some women prefer to be informed about the call beforehand. We will then find out the convenient time and day for her and arrange it with you. At the appointed time our operator will connect you. If you are calling to a woman without any previous contact with her, she may not want to take your call, because most women want to read a couple of lettes from a person or to see his profile first.
Your next action
If some time after establishing a firm contact with the lady you want your relationships to enter a different, more serious stage, you should think about meeting her in person. In most cases our clients live on different continents, so we often help them organise their first meeting. It is next to impossible for a Russian woman to get a tourist visa to the States, so it is usually a guy who comes to her homecountry. Another variant is to meet in a country where Russian women do not need a visa. These are Dominican Republic, France, Turkey, Cyprus, etc. However, this option leaves you practically unprotected before scammers, because you will have to pay for the ticket of the lady. We have a complete section on Visas and Immigration in our FAQ.
After a personal meeting you may apply for her "K" visa (a "fiancee" visa) if you both want it. In this case she will have the right to come to your country and stay there for 3 months in the status of a "fiancee". Neither of you is obliged to get married during this period, but if you marry her, she will be able to stay in your country indefinitely. If all this does not work out, she will have to go back to her homecountry. You can read more on this.
If you can organise a meeting without our participation, you should first get the direct contact information of your lady. All the details you will find here.
Below you will find a detailed explanation on why the price for letters from different women varies. Our system is not an easy one, but it was created to give our clients the best advantages. The explanation is rather long, but it contains answers to every question on the subject.
First and foremost, once you have started to correspond with a girl, we do not increase the price for her letters for you.
Our unique price structure makes it possible to pay only 50 cents for a two-way letter exchange (sending 1 letter and receiving the response). The quality of the service stays very high, and it does not take more time. Our competitors ask for $8 for the same service. Moreover, we do not charge women at all.
The scheme is as follows. You can purchase credits for these prices:
We accept all major credit cards, checks, wires, and more.
Why does the price to open as letter from different women vary? Here is the answer. Most our male clients have email addresses, so it is not a problem for them to get a message. However, the situation our female clients having the Internet deserves for the better. A lot of women do not have Internet access, so our representatives intheir cities have to call them and inform about the messages they have received. The ladies go to their agencies and get the letters. They may answer to the letters or write new ones the same way. Ther are translators who help women read the letter and translate the answer if the lady has difficulties with English. There are cases when a woman cannot visit the agency, so our representatives read her the contents of the letters over the phone. Another option is to send a printed copy of the letter by domestic mail. As you understand, all this must be paid for. On the other hand, those women who have the Internet access are really easy to contact. Letters from our male clients get forwarded to these ladies automatically and quickly. You see, our competitors set a fixed price for letter delivery, be it expensive or cheap. They put the difference in their pockets while we give you the best opportunity to save a good sum of money. As Has already been said, most of our female clients have email addresses, and you can correspond with them directly, without the help of the agency. The price for this is very low (as little as 50 cents per 2-way letter exchange)
There is one more reason for the prices to be different. The thing is that every site has a bunch of women who are extremely popular, so men write to these girls a lot. This question has a reverse side: ladies who ae not so popular get much less attention from men while guys get very short responses (or none at all) from these popular queens. The dating sites do not really care about that. they place the prettiest faces on their first pages and contribute to the girl's popularity. They sell the girl's addresses and make their money. Men who start to correspond with these women are not aware that the girls get hundreds of letters from their competitors. That is why we have decided to intrducea floating price for correspondence with each woman based on the number of members she is actively corresponding with. We track how many letters a woman has already received. The more the quantity, the bigger the price in credits to open a letter from her. If you have begun to correspond with a woman, the price does not grow for you. It increases only for new contacts. This limits the number of men contacting one particular woman. This system has proven to increase chances of success for both men and women. When too many letters are left unreplied, the further increase of the price has no practical value, so the profile of this girl is dropped from search results (the correspondence which already exists continues, of course). If the lady does not answer any letters, does not visit our site and does not connect with the agency, she gets a warning that her profile will be suspended and later deleted for inactivity. That is why you may be certain to meet only active and real girls here.
We have explained everything about the price and the reasons for it to be floating. The price may be as low as 0.50 credits, but no higher than 20 credits. Naturally, the average prices are in between.
The way to find out more about a lady
We do not keep any information about ladies except their personal contact information. All other data is displayed in the profiles of ladies. Some fields, however, are not filled out, but it means the girl herself chose not to fill them out. Thus, you can see phrases like "Unknown", or "Information not supplied" on certain fields. The lady deliberately decided to leave them blank then. If you are interested in this information, the best way to find it out is to ask the lady herself.
Is this lady available?
If you see the profile of this lady on our site, it means she is available. We do not want to waste your and our time by keeping inactive profiles. We are interested in your opening the ladies' responses, so if a lady stops answering letters and smiles, does not check her mailbox and does not visit our site, we send her a warning note. In case she does not become active, we suspend and then delete her profile.
Some fields in profiles say "Will tell you later". What does it mean?
Quite often women prefer not to open some things about themselves so that everyone could see this information. For example, "Want children - Will tell you later". It means that if you contact the woman and ask her about that, she does not object to disscussing it in letters or by phone. This option leaves the girls an opportunity to give a hint without giving the details.
What to do if you don't want to pay with a credit card
We have a lot of payment options such as payments by check, money order, cash, and more. You can choose any method of payment given below to send the necessary sum of money for the credits you would like to purchase. Remember to use requisites or the address. Do not forget to write your ID or your nickname on our site. You may do it right on the payment or put a sheet of paper with this information in an envelope. We will apply credits to your account as soon as we recieve and clear your payment.
How safe is it to use a credit card on this site?
Our server does not keep your credit card information. Visa and Mastercard regulations oblige us not to keep the CVV data (the three or four digit security code on the back of your card) anywhere at all. It means that even if your card gets stolen, though it's unlikely, it won't be used practically anywhere without that code.
The information from your credit card will be encrypted only on our internal computers, in case we need to assist you if you happen to have problems processing your order on-line, or to issue any refunds. We always ask for the authorization to charge a credit card. We do not have either membership fees or "recurring" charges. Your card is charged only with your expressed authorization. We guarantee that.
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