I am a single widowed man age 62 who has met some personable, attractive women . But it’s a bit of a slog (next!) because so many profiles that I have seen are poorly constructed and not thoughtfully put together. Which is why I feel compelled to tell my story of what NOT to write in order to find a life partner -- or just a date. I know it’s tough out there, and I know, it’s easier for men than women. Which is why -- I have a sister once -- I want to be honest about what works and what doesn’t from a guy who genuinely likes women. Not just the sex part. The whole Venus and Mars planetary divide part. Take it for what’s it worth -- free advice from one on the other end.

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